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by Carolyn Berezowsky
4 months ago in Design Dilemma
How to have a pink room for a boy?
My 4.5 year old son has loved pink ever since he could say "my favorite colour is...". He has repeatedly asked to have his room painted pink. I know it "shouldn't" matter, but in reality, he might get teased for having a pink room. Does anyone have ideas how to incorporate pink into a boys's room?
BTW - it's a relatively small room with dark (espresso) wood furniture.
Thanks!
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Bargain Backer That's a tough one...maybe try some stuff on the walls to reduce some of the pinkness.
Some nautical stuff may look nice: http://www.bargainbacker.com/Nautical-Accents_c_2707.html

We carry a nice line of sporting memorabilia such as rugs, wall decor, etc: http://www.bargainbacker.com/Sports-Fans_c_723.html
4 months ago ·
feeny Bravo for your son! What about mixing charcoal grays, blacks and whites with raspberry, fuchsia, or magenta? I know these aren't children's rooms, but they give you an idea of the palette:
4 months ago · ·
Jayme Hobbs I would also add in the charcoal, black/white...
4 months ago · ·
feeny Or what about a plaid with either navy blue and pink or charcoal gray, black and pink for a quilt cover?
Here's a Polo bedding set that might fit the bill:
http://www.home-decorating-co.com/us-polo-assn-all-over-pink-pony-plaid-bed.html
4 months ago · ·
Marilyn Wilkie If it makes you feel any better my whole elementary school's population voted pink and brown as the school's colors. That was back in the 50's when those were popular colors. Unfortunately, they changed them later. LOL He is only 4 1/2 and I'm sure it could be repainted in the not-too-distant future when he changes his mind. There are many shades of pink and some might work well. Cartoon- like comes to mind.
4 months ago ·
Katerina Daniel My oldest son went through a period when he liked pink but he changed as he got older. Whether it is a unique colour choice or favourite items, they tend to change as they grow.

How about incorporating some throw pillows in a plaid with pink, and maybe artwork or posters with pink? Gives him (and you) the option of changing the decor without another big investment. I've taken this approach with my boys' rooms and it makes it easy to change with their ever growing personalities and stages.
4 months ago · ·
Jayme Hobbs Or how about something like these orange rooms and add in a colorful painting/or paintings with pink/pinkish colors?
4 months ago · ·
dschoster Our 4 year old grandson has loved pink and orange since birth so when he requested that for his room when they moved last year, I painted an accent wall orange and the slanted ceiling above it, pink. Both colors are very saturated so they don't give a feminine vibe - just good color fun. Who says pink is just for girls?!
4 months ago · ·
Interiors International, Inc. Ok, here is a way that his friends might except. You can get a vinyl mural of Kyle Busch's nascar. It is pink for breast cancer awareness and is a cool car. Do a entire Nascar theme and bring in some other cars. I know as a kid I would love that. You can blend in charcoal grey with it. Believe me I'm not homophobic (I'm Gay) nor do I think pink is necessarily girly. However kids can be cruel (been there) they just mimic what they hear in society. Have fun and I think your boy is cool.
4 months ago · ·
Danielle B I suggest going for bold, hot pinks. To avoid it looking girly, stay away from small prints. Go for color blocking/zoning or large horinzontal stripes (18 inches or more). Why not put pink only on one wall, or maybe just on the ceiling? For example of colour zoning, see http://sico.ca/En/Couleur_Zones.asp
4 months ago · ·
Lady Von Good for you for being open to painting your son's room pink. Here are some ideas. Colorblocking is a great way to add many colors to your son's room without making it too "girly". Maybe pick 2-3 colors (1 being a rich/vibrant pink) and a strong neutral like gray or brown to tie it all together. You don't have to paint the entire room pink. Maybe paint his room a neutral shade then add pops of color in the artwork and/or bedding. Changing out a poster or a pillow is much cheaper and much easier than repainting an entire room. And Mom you know kids change their minds often. So, don't stress and don't complicate it.

Good luck!
4 months ago · ·
fuzinav I love a pale coral ( as your pink) accented with orange. Cute and young.
4 months ago ·
Should I Go Or Should I Stay Here are some images for your perusal. There are many shades of pink. I would get some paint chits and see if he likes the pink that leans toward coral. It is important that he likes the pink you choose.
You can switch out the colours in some of the samples shown here. I have included some wall art.
For instance in image #3 I would paint the walls pink ans have pink pillows or throw.
4 months ago · ·
Should I Go Or Should I Stay some more
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Should I Go Or Should I Stay more
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Should I Go Or Should I Stay more
4 months ago · ·
sam0705 For art also check out avalisa if you like modern style. They have a lot using pink but they are very graphic so more gender neutral I think.

If your son likes horses one of my first thoughts was that jockeys often wear pink so maybe doing an accent wall in pink with that kind of theme. In the same vein as a pink Ralph Lauren polo shirt.
4 months ago · ·
njmomma Loving the above pic. I would give him an accent wall in a deep rich pink and the rest of the walls would be in gray. Large posters of pictures of planes, cars, trucks, machinery, whatever his taste in black, gray, white and as he changes his mind, change the accent wall to the color of his choice.

The kid knows what he likes, I like that kid.
4 months ago ·
orangecamera This is at Walmart. On clearance, for only $19.00. It's called "Your Zone Reversible Comforter and Sham Set, Pink Stripe/Orange Nectarine"
4 months ago · ·
Carolyn Berezowsky @W Smith - if your watching. I really like the room with the different coloured panels on the wall. I can't seem to save that photo to an idea book and I can't find it on the site. Any chance you could give me the link? I think that's what we are going to do :)
3 months ago · ·
Jayme Hobbs You are awesome parents!!
3 months ago · ·
Lady Von @Carolyn - I am not sure how to do the link here but if you do a Houzz search for KannCept Design the picture should come up on the first page. Good luck!
3 months ago ·
janishill You could paint the walls like a sunrise and/or sunset. Similar to the picture with the little boy in it, but withthe sun rising/setting. Use a turquoise blue rug to represent the water.
3 months ago · ·
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3 months ago · ·
curraghgirl It's just a color- his favorite one - so just go for it. Pink goes great with browns, navy etc...look at some men's shirts with pink in them for inspiration. Add in his favorite pictures of sports stars/movie stars in dark bold frames - some cool wooden toys ( ikea) and I bet his friends will be jealous.
3 months ago · ·
annetteatrap My 4 year old son also loves pink. When we turned his baby room into his "big boy" space we did not offer a choice on the wall color. But I let him pick out his own sheets and throw pillows. He chose some, but not all pink things. We also finger painted some very large canvases with his favorite colors. And I think it looks great - pink and all.
3 months ago · ·
Creations Nadia Interior Design i would do just bedding - it's much easier to change eventaully then to paint the room :))
3 months ago ·
eztia Have you son look at these ideas for bedding and sheets, and throw pillows.

Have him make some BIG art pieces. Frame them in inexpensive frames (ex: plexiglass poster frames). Framing children's work makes it "important."

Absolutely go ahead and paint a bright, saturated pink accent wall. Let your son choose between a few color chips you present to him. If he does not like any of them, bring some more home for him to look at. At age 4.5, a trip to a paint store to look for pink chips is likely to be too many choices for him to process.

There is a lamp that looks like a balloon Dachshund, in hot pink "chrome" plastic. I will see if I can find a photo for you.

He is at such a precious age. Let his favorites be his own. When he gets to be in elementary school, he will be subject to more peer pressure to conform.

Take lots and lots of photos! :)
3 months ago · ·
eztia The dog lamp is no longer available. Sorry.
3 months ago ·
loroca Maybe you can use a few different plaids on pillows and window coverings
3 months ago · ·
Kimball Starr Interior Design Hi Carolyn,

Everyone has made lots of great suggestions! If you do choose to go with pink walls, definitely stay away from soft, pale pinks and go with intense corals or fuschia. Then I suggest you temper the pink wall with a graphic pattern painted on the wall.

Two great colors to add to keep the room "boyish" and still meant for a kid, would be a cobalt blue, and/or grass green. You could paint a horizontal band the entire perimeter of the room in either the cobalt blue or green, from say, starting 2 feet off the floor up to 6 feet. That way the bottom 2 feet of the room is pink, and the top 2 feet is pink closest to the ceiling.

At his eye level he gets to see pink, but the overall look isn't a pink bomb. Then on the blue band you can use that as the area to hang art, pictures, etc, or even stencil his name in super large letters in a colorful color of paint.

Good luck and have fun with it!
3 months ago · ·
eztia Carolyn, what are your thoughts?
3 months ago ·
boysaboys i would agree not to paint the room, go with accents, rug, pillows etc.
3 months ago ·
Mary I agree with the Ralph Lauren idea. Do something preppy - think Tommy Hilfiger or RL - pastel plaids.
3 months ago · ·
Susanna Pink is just a color. Kids know that. Then, somewhere along the way they pick up pink phobia from adults. They are told it's not their gender color. I think we should give you the Houzz award for not doing that to your son.

I don't know who the moron was who started this whole pink/ blue gender thing (I suspect it had to do with marketing and selling something.) but we have the opportunity to stop it.

Therefor, I hope you don't try to hide the pink in a sea of something else. l agree with International...if it is cool enough, his friends will be jealous. I would stay with the shade of pink on the car. Don't go hotter. Hot pink is a hyperactive color. Also, the black and brown on that car is what gives it weight and keeps it from looking like Barbie. :-) Stick with those colors and it should be very cool!
3 months ago · ·
Carolyn Berezowsky @W Smith - it's actually the other picture I wanted. The one with the big rectangles of colour on the wall. Could not find it searching for KannCept.
3 months ago ·
Carolyn Berezowsky @Eztia - great comments. I think we will go with a dark grey for 3 walls with the main wall being different rectangles of colour (separated by very thin white moulding). A huge pink section right around his bed headboard and his (already framed!) artwork. Another great suggestion from @Kimball Starr Interior Design. We will go with cobalt Blue and grass green, as well as bright orange for the other rectangles.
3 months ago ·
Carolyn Berezowsky Wow, I'm just thrilled with all the comments and suggestions on this thread. So many great ideas. We brought up the idea of the bright coloured rectangles with the boy and he was really excited. Next he said he wants to incorporate rainbows! Oh boy!.

Hopefully this thread is helpful to others too!
3 months ago ·
eztia Rainbows on gray walls would be a fantastic idea! Let him paint them himself! It is so fun to see what colors they use before they are taught (ROY G BIV red, orange yellow, green...). Do not show him pictures of rainbows before he paints. Provide other colors such as pink and tangerine and turquoise and lime green and school bus yellow....along with the typical ones. Craft paint should work...
3 months ago ·
Carolyn Berezowsky Guess what we discovered in researching pink? It's actually the non-colour. It's the only part of the spectrum that does not exist. It's the part between violet and red if a rainbow was a full circle. Our brain peceives this non-colour as pink! Cool huh?
3 months ago · ·
Melanie Hon For what it's worth, my son (only child) is almost 6.5 years old, and I just confirmed (I asked him) that he has TWO favourite colours and they are purple and pink. He's always said these were his favourite colours. However his bedroom is painted blue and his bedspread is green. I asked him whether he would want his room to be purple and pink and he said "no!" and I asked him, "why not, it's your favourite colour?" He said "because that'd be weird." I am definitely not a mother that is trying to influence my son to do boyish things: I bought him a kitchen set a couple years ago because he loves to help in the kitchen and play pretend cook, and he has a gentle loving nature, but he also loves trains/cars/planes. Whenever he has the option though to pick something pink, like a sticker, or a candy, or a towel, or plate/cup/cutlery etc, he always chooses the one that is pink or purple. Just because those are his favourite colours, doesn't mean he can only function with those two colours all the time. I will not buy him pink or purple clothes. So I will go against most of the other people here going "Yay for Pink" and say don't do it.

As the mother of a son who loves pink I know two things: kids tastes change frequently! In the last two years we've gone from Hot Wheels, to Thomas, to Cars, to Lego. Unless you want to change your wall colour/bedding every year, go neutral and just accessorize with wall decals and pillows and stuffies on shelves, etc.

The second thing: kids pick up ALL those "society gender expectations" in kindergarten and it just gets stronger by 1st grade. It is shocking, but true!! My son would be teased by his classmates if he had a pink room, even at the age of 6. In preschool and kindergarten he would only play with girls because he wasn't as rough and hyper as the other boys, but now, when given a choice, he plays with the boys. In the schoolyard, he says the girls in his class play house at recess, and the boys play freeze tag. He says he doesn't play with the girls because the one time he did they made him be the "Dad" and he had to "marry" one of the other girls, and after that they wanted to hug him all the time. (I thought it was cute, but hey, I'm a girl!) I noticed they have a new line of pink lego and when I pointed it out to him at Toys R Us and asked if he would want it he says "no, that's for GIRLS". I said, but its a vet clinic, it's not for girls... and he looked at me like I was stupid. (sigh they grow up so fast). They pick this stuff up very easily from the fact that Barbie/Princess/Hello Kitty is all PINK. Kids aren't dumb, they see their female classmates with pink backpacks/lunch boxes/clothes/shoes/toys/ribbons in their hair and very quickly decide that pink is for girls. You can try and buck the trend, but be ready for the first 5 year old boy that comes in your son's room for a playdate and loudly proclaims "why is your room PINK?!! That's a GIRL COLOUR!!!" I'm not trying to be hurtful, just honest.
3 months ago ·
Melanie Hon Hi Carolyn, I typed up my super long response while you were replying and I see now that you've decided to go with grey walls and add bright colours in other ways, which I think is fantastic and if your son is happy, then that is all that matters!
3 months ago ·
hockey456 Wow
3 months ago ·
hockey456 Wow, this is a tough one. I am thinking 3 walls navy and the bed wall strong pink ( not fuchsia ). Then do blue denim bedding with a plaid throw pillow. Maybe a brown leather bean bag. Make everything else in the room super masculine. Look to Restoration Hardware Baby & Child for furniture and accessory purchases or inspiration.
My son has a jean comforter made by Woolrich.
3 months ago ·
onthefence Your son is going to have the very best room of any kid on the block!

The downside is, you can't threaten to send him to his room as punishment anymore. It will be a fun place for him to be! (sorry, I'm behind the times - do parents still send kids to their rooms?)
3 months ago ·
Mogulinterior Hello.. you can add pink bedspreads. pink cushions, pink curtains to the room..
here you can see
http://www.mogulinterior.com/
3 months ago ·
orangecamera As a kid I had a rainbow painted on my wall that went from floor to ceiling. Now I have faceted crystals hanging in my windows that get direct sunlight, and at certain times of the day I have little rainbows all over my walls, floors and ceilings. Your son might be fascinated by these "real" rainbows. And...they don't require you to repaint anything. And they're not "girly". He can tell his gender-ist friends that they're "science". ;)
3 months ago ·
eztia Good idea, orangecamera. Prisms!
3 months ago ·
Barnhart Gallery Hi Carolyn -- Lots of great suggestions! I'd take a trip to the candy store, then go on a photo shoot...and hopefully end up with something like this, blown up as an enormous focal point for his room. I also happen to love the wide horizontal stripes. Good luck, and let us know how you do!
3 months ago · ·
Carolyn Berezowsky Hi,
Thank you everyone for all the great ideas. Here is the final product (of the painting at least). We are going to put some posters up and when that's done I'll attach another photo. I love it and so does he. Thanks everyone for all the great comments and inspirations.
8 weeks ago · ·
orangecamera VERY nicely done! I'm glad your son loves it.
8 weeks ago ·
Barnhart Gallery Nice job!
8 weeks ago ·
Go Nautical Collections Looks great, you can also add some nautical items http://gonautical.com/nautical-decor-c-2.html
8 weeks ago ·
Jayme Hobbs Perfect!!! You did an awesome job...Love it!
8 weeks ago ·
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