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Norm Walters Construction Inc. If the builder messed it up, he should be replacing it, I would.

Interiors International, Inc. If your stuck with lemons lets make lemon-aid. Those three colors can work together. They are all neutrals. Treat them like they are one. Bring in a punch of your favorite bold color. It could be a deep blue or maybe purple. I would even try a citrus green and teal. You will find a combination that will make it work.

Ironwood Builders Norm and I agree. When we screw up, we pay up.

rawketgrl I agree with Ironwood Builders, the builder should fix it, if you ask. If not then you have to decide, is it worth the fight?

If not Revere Pewter to the rescue! The perfect color for gray/white/beige/tans.
http://www.benjaminmoore.com/en-us/paint-color/reverepewter
I have seen this paint do amazing things to unify spaces.

I personally would paint the molding bright white and have bright white accessories, but that is me. Benjamin Moore has some suggestions for colors that go well with Revere Pewter, see if you like any thing there... Post pics when you can. Good luck!