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by flgrandma
3 months ago in Design Dilemma
What style of furniture did your grand-mother have?
I believe that the popularity of modern design is due to the popular design for your grand-parents. Depending on your age you look back to what your grand-parents either had or wanted, Victorian, American Colonial, Modern (or what we might call mid-century). If you lived the style as a child (what your parents' liked) it's probably not your current favorite. So, vote on what style you like and if you were emotionally swayed to this style through Granny. Tell us why you love this style.
 
Mid-Century
Country - French
Victorian
Art Deco
Contemporary
Traditional
British Colonial
Transitional
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judyg The only style I would not choose, for myself, is Victorian. But that choice only concerns the furniture. It just isn't comfortable enough for my lifestyle now. But give me a (Updated) Victorian house and I would be a happy camper.

3 months ago ·
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3 months ago ·
feeny Grandparents: Victorian (handmade lace shawl draped over the piano)
Parents: Danish mid-century modern (lots of teak and natural-weave fabrics)
Me: Craftsman, Shaker (antiques with clean, simple lines), and Transitional.

Does that fit your thesis? I actually love my parents' style, just not for my 1920's house, and I don't like fussy Victorian. I didn't vote in your poll since you didn't have an option that really fit me.
3 months ago · ·
flgrandma feeny, I hear so many older people say that they have beautiful things (and they do) but no one wants them - meaning their "children". I know so many youngish adults who love mid-century and at one point you couldn't give that away. Just trying to see a little logic in how this happens, maybe there isn't any.. You're much closer to your parents' in design.
3 months ago ·
Jayme Hobbs My mother had no decorating style whatsoever. My paternal Grandmother had a good eye for scale..but not color..my maternal Grandmother had an eye for color, scale and style...They all hated antiques..I like a mix of traditional, antique, eclectic/transitional...(yes..the odd ball!)!!
3 months ago ·
feeny Sadly, I have a basement full of Danish MCM teak furniture, inherited from my parents' CA ranch house, but not appropriate in the least for my older house or the rest of my style. But I have trouble letting go of it because I like it. Perhaps our son will use it someday. Perhaps not. And there is a whole house full of family antiques from my husband's parents that will eventually make their way to the children and grandchildren. Some will be welcome and incorporated easily, others will sit in basements unused.
3 months ago · ·
Jayme Hobbs I grabbed a few antique pieces from a cabin my parents bought..and a huge iron, light pole off a bridge my father helped to demolish...solid metal...about 9 feet tall...scalloped bottom..HEAVY..in my front yard at the foot of our sidewalk...have never seen another like it.
3 months ago ·
Robin W I have all my grandmas old furniture in my garage. I think my grandpa built it in their house cause it was a pain to get out, and doesn't fit into mine.
3 months ago ·
Ironwood Builders Both my Grandmas had working class traditional. My Mom went Traditional, then Pop-Art! I'm with Feeny...Arts and Crafts eclectic...Oriental rugs and Navajo blankets, leather furniture and real antiques (tending to the real, real Stickley) I've got some stuff from the last four generations of my family in the house, passed down...One daughter can't wait for me to start divesting, her husband wants my Hopi pottery and Tlingit baskets, the Athabaskan cedar and the early 20th century art pottery. My son wants the furniture too (they'll figure it out, I have plenty). The middle child is heading super modern...she just wants my books!
3 months ago · ·
twylahaj One set of grandparents had traditional antique furniture. The other set had some weird combination of mid-century modern, pseudo Colonial, and whatever the latest fashion was. My parents had mostly hand me downs and home made with an eye toward Danish modern until the traditional antique grandparents downsized. For many years I really liked the antiques because of the memories, but my own taste runs toward the teaks and clean lines and rounded edges of the Midcentury Modern, though I also love Arts & Crafts and Transitional. Part of my preference also depends on the house where I live as I like furnishings to fit the character of a home. All that said, I am not likely to ever want to decorate in all one style. Perhaps that comes from the weird-combination grandparents. Their house always felt welcoming and looked good to me (although in later years I thought they should really have changed the pale green sculptured wall to wall carpet and worn vinyl linoleum!).
3 months ago ·
curacaoblue I don't really follow this. My parents appear to have the same taste that theirs did. Maybe it's because they inherited their parents stuff. Decor wasn't a priority for my parents likely because of the number of children they had so when they got something for free they were appreciative and embraced it. If I had to identify a style I'd call it traditional. I'm very contemporary. Neither my parents nor grandparents would care for my style.
3 months ago ·
Barnhart Gallery It's so funny you ask this flgrandma, because I've been giving this some thought lately, wondering why a style I disliked so much as a kid is making such a resurgance -- sorry 20 & 30 somethings, it's MCM, or what I like to call "midmo" -- its followers are "midmods." For me as a kid, it was on it's way out, and so it was the smelly old furniture at the bowling alley and in the dentist office -- yuk! Even so, its comeback does spark some fond memories of the late '60's and early '70's.

Midmo wasn't in my house, colonial was, and except for maybe a Willard grandfather clock, that style frankly belongs in the century whence it came.

By the beginning of the 80's, my mom was a world traveler and that broke us out of our colonial conundrum and brought us into a more classic and eclectic look that would still look nearly current today.

I come from a long line of BRCA1 loss -- because of our genetic predisposition to breast and ovarian cancer, most of the women in the family before me didn't live past their 40's. So I never knew my grandmother, although the house she raised my mom in speaks volumes about my mom's good taste -- excepting her earliest years as a first time nester keeping up with the Jones's early American thing.

Being the first in my family to test for this gene, I felt a responsibility to research, find, and contact long lost cousins who may be blindsided by cancer. It led to finding out a great deal about my grandmother's family, and when a cousin emailed a photo of my great grandmother's living room, I thought, my goodness, that has the lines of my empire couch, there's a pattern not unlike my rug, and I have botanical prints just like those in the master bath. And I never even knew my grand or great grandmother. But I do know they had style! My grandmother is on the far right, on the arm of the sofa.

I'm a fan of old and eclectic with a modern edge, but have to say I can't live without a touch of Empire.
3 months ago · ·
Margaret Phillips Grandparents for all of us can mean a completely different time. Both sets of my grandparents were married in the early 1920s little bit of Deco, little bit of craftsmen even some Victorian. One set of grandparents, my step grandmother redecorated every 8 or 9 years. Whatever was the trend she had it. The other set decorated in early Williamsburg or British colonial.
3 months ago ·
Susan Mills Design I have a vague memory of thatched roof cottage, crammed with antiques, interesting books and a round wood tea table loaded with treats from a visit to England when quite small, not sure which relative it was. Both grandmas passed on and my mother too, very early as well to breast cancer. Barnhartgallery, I empathize.

My parents (style ?) was a bit of this and some of that. I think when they came to Canada they shunned anything to do with antiques. I came home one day, and my father had chopped up a beautiful rocking chair for firewood! Then he hand built a rock fireplace, it had nothing to do with the style of the home or anything else for that matter, but he loved it! I remember one night there was an earthquake and he stood in front of it with his arms outstretched, as if to hold it together. Ha!

Me? I love cottages, bright airy, eclectic, full of interesting collected pieces and especially the books!
3 months ago · ·
kathleen MK Grand parents were pretty Traditional with a little Art Deco /Hollywood Regency. Parents were the original beatniks with Danish modern but reverted to the antiques handed down from relatives, Duncan Phyfe, country French, early American. We have an eclectic mix and my least favorite is that MCM stuff of my childhood.
3 months ago ·
lefty47 HI -- I can't even answer this question . My grand parents and my parents style was whatever you got wheather it was hand me down or got along the way.They never gave thought to styles or matching eras etc. But I found clippings of homes and furniture I liked since childhood and it was all mostly mid century modern , which I still love and am striving for ( and some contemporary ) after I get rid of all my " just for now furniture " that I have had for years . I am the first and only person in the family that has any interest in interior design .
3 months ago · ·
wyndyacre I can't really put a finger on what my grandparents or parents style was...workingclass tradtional perhaps. My own style has evolved through the years, as I have aged, travelled, changed economic circumstances, and according to what kind of home I lived in. By the time I was 12, I was collecting antiques, some of which I still own. By the time I was 14, I was cutting out photos in magazines of rooms that appealed to me and dreaming of how I would fix up and decorate the dilapitated cottage that my schoolbus went by, if it were only mine. I've always been drawn to vintage homes of all sorts and now live in a 1926 rural schoolhouse.
I went through what I call the "cutesy country" phase when I was in my 20's and lived in a tiny cottage on a farm. But thankfully, emerged unscathed and have now settled into an eclectic/farmhouse Craftsman style that is uncluttered, simple, antiques and good craftsmanship. And practical. I have other interests in my life too and simply can't justify the amount of money it would take to to equip this simple home with the kinds of exhorbitant trappings I see in so many houses. I don't want to become a slave to my house! (Though, right now, I feel a little slavelike as I've spent every weekend and evening lately with a hammer or paintbrush in my hand!)
3 months ago · ·
flgrandma In the late 50s I babysat at a fabulous, very modern home and just fell in love with the clean lines and lack of clutter and none of the "dust catchers" that I had experienced in the homes of every relative that I had. I suspect that none of my family members gave any thought at all to design. All was function and what had been passed down, so emotion too. But, though I loved modern, I too thankfully accepted hand-me-downs as a young adult and went through many styles (and non-styles) along the way and I'm still changing. No, I don't have mid-century modern, but I do like seeing nice design from that era. I now have a home that's relatively clutter free with some pieces that I've had for many decades and new pieces acquired after a recent move. I guess I take after my family.

I've enjoyed reading the many posts and especially that of barnhartgallery.
3 months ago ·
Maryl Hershelman I do believe that the colors and trends popular today are from matching stuff from mom's attic and garage sales. Say I find a burnt orange wing chair in granny's attic and a few ashtrays (remember those?) well I'll need drapes and rugs cheap....Target gets this. Mid century used to be inexpensive at Goodwill etc but because of MadMen it's sought after...me? I watch MadMen and am obsessed with the lamps....
in answer to your question...my mother used much of a family inheritance to buy Ethan Allen bedroom and dining room furniture...which was handed down and incorporated in both my and my brother's decor....and the Pall Mall burns on the tops...are just memories now.
3 months ago ·
Barnhart Gallery Thank you flgrandma! You mention babysitting, and that reminds me that I also had a very strong influence from the tween and early teen years I spent tending to the horses and children at a fabulous old New England equestrian estate on the ocean. Those years of soaking in an old money aesthetic did reinforce what I learned from my mom, who had an uncanny ability to spot quality and achieve a high end look on a budget.

Susan Mills, thank you, likewise, and a link to info about genetics if you haven't already gone this route:
http://www.facingourrisk.org/index.php
3 months ago ·
Susan Mills Design Thank you, much appreciated barnhartgallery.

It sounds like that was a very interesting time for you. Have you read the book House As Mirror of Self? Many people's relationships with their home are firmly rooted in something experienced or ingrained from their childhood, can be anything really. It's a very worthwhile read, and has taken my work to another level.
3 months ago · ·
flgrandma Susan Mills, thank you for suggesting the book, "House As a Mirror of Self: Exploring the Deeper Meaning of Home" by Clare Cooper Marcus. The review sounds very interesting. I'm adding this to my Kindle.

http://www.amazon.com/House-As-Mirror-Self-Exploring/dp/0892541245
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Susan Mills Design Your welcome!
3 months ago ·
kmkh What I like has changed in the last few years and is definitely heavily influenced by the fact that both of my parents have passed away in these 2 1//2 years. I returned to Canada in 2010 after a few years overseas; Dad passed away 2 days after I landed. Because Mom was already in a nursing home, we sold the house then. But I didn't have a house yet, so couldn't take too much. My parents married in 1957 - so now I love clean lines, leggy furniture. I would love to be able to find these wood arm chairs for my living room!


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3 months ago ·
Barnhart Gallery Kathy so sorry about your folks. I'm sure someone can help you find those chairs.

Susan thanks for the book recommendation. My own home is certainly a reflection of my and my family's personal paths and passions. I want everyone to have that.
3 months ago · ·
alh1881 My grandparents had 1930's deco-ish stuff mixed with Arts and Crafts and a little Victorian.
My parents had a lot of Danish Modern stuff along with some Victorian bits and pieces my mother picked up cheap at "junk stores" and refinished.

I live in an 1881 house. I definitely tend towards the grandparent end of the taste spectrum but that's what works with the house best anyway. I have a number of their pieces in my house.
My most favorite style is English Arts and Crafts/Aesthetic: William Morris, CFA Voysey, and that sort of thing-- which is less stripped-down and a little more fanciful than American Arts and Crafts. I wish I could afford some Voysey wallpaper. (such as http://trustworth.com/wallpaper.shtml ) Voysey is To Die For. Danish Modern leaves me cold.
3 months ago · ·
Ironwood Builders Voysey was a genius!
3 months ago · ·
Barnhart Gallery alh1881 -- Thank you for that link! The first time I went to London, the first thing I did was to hop in a cab and head straight for the Victoria and Albert museum, as according to an internet search, they were in posession of William Morris' "The Forest." While I roamed happily 'til closing, no one in tapestries or archives had a record of it being there. Ah well -- an adventure anyway. I'm attaching a photo just for laughs that I snapped that day, I call it "The Goddess of Bad Parenting," and note the "Do not ouch" sign, LOL:
3 months ago · ·
Gabberts Design Studio Interesting theory...it could explain the resurgence of Mid-Century furniture.
3 months ago ·
Lizabeth I think we form an emotional connection with our grandparents and the style of their home and thus we are linked to enjoying their era in a way that we don't with our parents.
3 months ago ·
bumblebee728 Can't really say what my grandparents' styles were, maybe late Victorian, to Early American? But my mother always had a talent for incorporating lots of beautiful antiques (tables,chairs, paintings, lamps, etc.) into her home. She has a natural talent for decorating, and people have always loved her homes. Especially me! Now I try...and need a lot of Mom's advice, but she lives far away and isn't very good with the computer, so instead I am starting to depend on all of you wonderful people for good advice! When I visit Mom in her beautiful home I bring pix with me, she can't travel much anymore. Anyway, the point of my heartfelt post is that I have always loved and still love my Mother's decorating taste!
3 months ago · ·
Jayme Hobbs Mine always had a nice buick though! LOL
3 months ago · ·
bumblebee728 Lol! Jayme, fellow RN here btw, mine had a Cordoba, loved her home decorating more than her cars! :)
3 months ago · ·
Jayme Hobbs My other Grandma had a sleeker car and decor...however...we could not mess up her make up or hair...but with buick Grandma (Mabel)..We could!! I am turning out to be a real combo...but my lovely granddaughter can mess me up anytime!
3 months ago · ·
bumblebee728 Jayme, now you (and this post) have really got me reminiscing...
3 months ago · ·
Jayme Hobbs @bumblebee728...Love makes the world go round...and do does all our awesome decorating...!! Thx Gramma for all u did for us! I am going to carry on the traditions...
3 months ago · ·
Jayme Hobbs so do...whoops
3 months ago · ·
bumblebee728 Love, Grammas, traditions, and decorating...all great things!
3 months ago · ·
studio10001 My grandmother's house had furnishings given by her mother, mixed with a formica kitchen set, ever evolving living room furniture, dozens of african violets on every available flat surface and an antique china cabinet. It was chockful of breakable treasures, and as children, we would stick our noses to the glass and pick out our favourite bits.Her house seemed mysterious to me; it smelled of supper all the time, the stairs were made for giants, one room was wallpapered in magazine pictures, and everything but everything in the house creaked.
As an adult I was allowed to have her cabbage rose barkcloth drapes out of the box headed to goodwill, and designed my living room around them. When she finally went to a nursing home, her children donated the rest of the "junk" to thrift stores; the drapes and memories are all I have left of her, but her influence is everywhere in my house..right down to the formica kitchen table and hothouse plants. I have collected other people's grandparent's things in an effort to replicate the warmth and magic of a visit to her house, as it was one of the best possible places on earth to be.
3 months ago · ·
Barnhart Gallery Nice, studio. You made me realize why I was so happy to get the photo I posted halfway up this thread; when my maternal grandmother died, my mother was in college, and at the end of the semester she returned home devastated to find all of her family heirlooms sold. So seeing my great grandmother's living room for the first time recently spoke volumes, and makes the few items I have invalueable.
3 months ago · ·
studio10001 I'm grateful to be able to share it, Barnhart....and who would think that ten people huddled around a sofa could look so impossibly elegant as yours! Your great grandmother may not have passed on the heirlooms, but it is certain that she bequeathed you all with taste.
Your mother's story brings me to mind of something more. It seems to me that our connection to our homes and our history is paramount to a richly led life. As exciting as it is to update things every ten years or so, as we are constantly urged to do,the practice chips away at our familial sense of continuity, as surely as death does, and we should be mindful of that price to pay in exchange for being temporarily on trend. Sometimes a history needs to be erased (especially if it is borrowed from the colonials) , but perhaps as often, it craves the layering of pneumonic devices that our homes can provide to make us feel content. For that reason, all houses that have been lived in for long periods of time have a special glory, easily accessed by a child's imagination, and likely to be emulated whether consciously or no.
3 months ago · ·
teeooh My grandmother would have wondered what all those styles meant? Buzzwords change
3 months ago ·
lc29 I have to admit I was embarrassed by my mom's mcm style in a sea of suburban traditional homes. When I was a young adult I chose a mix of victorian antiques and traditional furniture (my grandparents had the victorian style), but as I've gotten older I've transitioned to the mcm modern style. I appreciate the clean lines and love the large coffee table that was my mom's which now graces my living room. Still have one bedroom with the french bamboo victorian furniture that I will always keep because I love it so.
3 months ago ·
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