Clutter vs. Keepers: A Guide to New Year's Purging
Simple questions to get in touch with your clutter comfort level — and figure out what needs to go
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With a new year upon us and the resolution-making frenzy in full effect, many of us (myself included) will be casting aside clutter in an attempt to streamline our homes. But what, and how much, do you get rid of? What makes clutter, clutter? Where do you draw the line between an inspiring collection and a jumbled mess? And what about some of the styling tricks employed for photo shoots — creative or ridiculous? If you have ever walked into a friend's home and found yourself wondering how they can live with all of that stuff, you know that we each have our own clutter comfort level.
So the questions become: What is clutter to you, and what can you do about it? Read on to find where you stand on the clutter comfort continuum, then use the questions that follow to examine your reasons for keeping (or tossing) just about anything in your home.
So the questions become: What is clutter to you, and what can you do about it? Read on to find where you stand on the clutter comfort continuum, then use the questions that follow to examine your reasons for keeping (or tossing) just about anything in your home.
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Part 1: Finding Your Clutter Comfort Level
Each of us has an innate sense of what feels "cluttered," so the first step in coming to terms with your own clutter is determining what your clutter set point is. Some of us would feel right at home in an English country home crammed full of antique furniture, vases, sculpture, potted plants and throw pillows galore. For others, that sort of living space would be incredibly unappealing.
Each of us has an innate sense of what feels "cluttered," so the first step in coming to terms with your own clutter is determining what your clutter set point is. Some of us would feel right at home in an English country home crammed full of antique furniture, vases, sculpture, potted plants and throw pillows galore. For others, that sort of living space would be incredibly unappealing.
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Do you have the soul of an artist? If you are drawn to saturated colors and prefer to be surrounded by layers of interesting textiles, objects and original art, you lean toward the maximalist, artistic side of the spectrum when it comes to decorating.
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If you are an artist at heart, it would be pointless to try to clear away all of the "stuff" in your home that you draw inspiration from. Your energy is buoyed by having exciting, tactile and colorful objects to explore — your challenge is to continually edit and curate your possessions. Try rotating out favorite pieces and keeping some hidden away in a trunk or closet so your space is not overwhelmed.
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Or the soul of an architect? Are you drawn to the underlying structure of things, clean lines and a minimalist aesthetic? Does color make you a bit nervous (or seem superfluous), and you instead appreciate white space? If yes, you are an architect at heart. For you, every item in your home must earn its keep, by being both useful and well designed. And if you are living with an artist? That will have to be a topic for another day!
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Part 2: The Guiding Questions
No matter whether you are a maximalist or minimalist, what makes something "clutter" for each of us has a lot to do with whether it is useful to you. Beyond matters of strict utility, we use our belongings to enrich our lives at home in many ways. The following five questions are meant to help sift through the reasons we keep things around; then you can decide whether it deserves a place in your home.
No matter whether you are a maximalist or minimalist, what makes something "clutter" for each of us has a lot to do with whether it is useful to you. Beyond matters of strict utility, we use our belongings to enrich our lives at home in many ways. The following five questions are meant to help sift through the reasons we keep things around; then you can decide whether it deserves a place in your home.
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Does it resonate with your sense of style and beauty? Home is the only place where we have the power to choose how we want things to look and feel. When you look at something and your heart flutters, you feel uplifted or you immediately think, "That's so me," it's a keeper. We all deserve little moments of beauty for beauty's sake.
Does it get in your way? A good sign that something is clutter is if you frequently find yourself annoyed by it. Excessive pillows that must be tossed off the sofa or bed in order to settle in, knick knacks that make cleaning difficult, all of the who-knows-what stuffed into the hall closet that threatens to fall on your head each time you open the door. These are your primary problem areas, so tackle them first.
Does it get in your way? A good sign that something is clutter is if you frequently find yourself annoyed by it. Excessive pillows that must be tossed off the sofa or bed in order to settle in, knick knacks that make cleaning difficult, all of the who-knows-what stuffed into the hall closet that threatens to fall on your head each time you open the door. These are your primary problem areas, so tackle them first.
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Do the colors, textures or patterns inspire you? The colors, patterns and textures that surround us can have a profound impact on how we feel. Pay attention to how you respond to color in your home — it's just as important to remove the colors that make you feel irritable or down as it is to play up the hues you love.
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Does it call up warm memories? Family photos, artwork made by your child's hands, and heirlooms passed down for generations have the ability to fill your heart with joy just by their very presence in your home.
On the other hand, objects that bring up negative emotions qualify as clutter of the most insidious kind. Whether it is a gift that you detest from a well-meaning relative, or a photo that reminds you of a difficult period in your life, these are certainly not things you want on display. If you can't bring yourself to actually get rid of the item, at least keep it packed away where it won't be a daily downer.
On the other hand, objects that bring up negative emotions qualify as clutter of the most insidious kind. Whether it is a gift that you detest from a well-meaning relative, or a photo that reminds you of a difficult period in your life, these are certainly not things you want on display. If you can't bring yourself to actually get rid of the item, at least keep it packed away where it won't be a daily downer.
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If you suspect that your memorabilia may be getting out of hand, ask yourself if you still appreciate all of the pieces on display, or if they fade into the background as you walk by. When too much is competing for your attention, the individual objects lose some of their specialness; so try to edit it down. You can always keep a drawer of extra photos and switch some out seasonally, or organize one giant gallery wall to hold all of your favorites at once.
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| Does it give you creative ideas? Designers and artists often keep inspiration boards filled with anything and everything that inspires them at the moment. Even if you don't have an inspiration board, there may be things in your home you turn to for inspiration that may at first appear like clutter — huge backlogs of magazines, an extensive book collection, a cabinet of colorful pottery. Once you recognize that you use these things for inspiration, you can figure out a way to house them neatly, steering them away from the fate of being labeled "clutter." |
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| Extra credit: Conduct a space audit. Looking at each item in your home, from the curtains and throw pillows to the contents of your desk drawer, is a time-consuming project, to be sure. But if the new year has you feeling motivated, going through your home piece-by-piece can be quite eye opening. By intentionally deciding what to keep (and why) and what to let go of (and why), you can increase your feelings of engagement with your stuff — and your life. Tell us: Are you a minimalist or a maximalist? What is your biggest challenge when facing clutter in your home? More: Clutter-Clearing 101 |
Ideabook updated on Jan. 25, 2013.
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Like most people, I think, I'm somewhere in between minimum and maximum.
I love the sleek, clean looks of the minimum - but when I see a living space with only a sofa, 2 chairs, a naked coffee table and a wall mounted TV my first thought is "Where's the remote?" I have the same reaction when I see a gorgeous, bright kitchen with nothing on the counter but a bud vase with a single tulip - "Where's the coffee maker?"
On the other hand, a sofa with so many pillows there's no place to sit isn't very appealing to me either.
Thanks for all the great ideas to help everyone create their own happy, harmonious, beautiful home.
Thank you for this article and all the inspirational photos and suggestions.
mimidear
We've just finished giving our entry/hallway a complete makeover, and I've given myself this month to put the finishing touches to our living room and dining area. I'm sewing slipcovers for my dining chairs (which don't really look too good anymore, but are still in good condition otherwise), next I'll move on to sewing new curtains, some more pillow cases (so I can change them around as the mood strikes me) and the hubby will finally attach new baseboards.
Next month we'll turn our attention to the bedrooms, and after that (probably near the summer months, we intend to build three or four rooms in the loft. I can hardly wait to get my hands dirty on some solid construction work again.
The way I've found to move me through the process is to consider the use items may have in "another life". Happily, our area has a number of places such as ReStore - a contributor to Habitat for Humanity and other charitable Thrift Shops, or even consignment shops who also contribute to the community, where gently used items are welcomed and appreciated. It feels so much better to load items into a dedicated package for someone else than to make the trip to the dumpster.
So that picture frame my Mother gave me years ago or that pair of decorative candllesticks I just had to have for my table, can be cleared out easily knowing someone else, somewhere, might enjoy my mother's and my 'exquisite' taste.
Here's to a productive de-cluttering with a happy outcome!
I have a little glass cracker server that I never use. It just sits there taking up space in my hutch. Does anyone else do this?
This is a very nice collection of ideas and I enjoyed it very much.
Definitely totally emptying a room, thoroughly cleaning and putting things back in proper storage is a great way to see just what you really do need.
So far the "road" has taken in quick order a perfectly good tube TV, a functioning but noisy air conditioner (with a sign saying as such) a coffee table and a sleeper sofa.
It's a good feeling to both let go of what is no longer wanted, and also know that someone else will still make use of them.
OMG you are soooo right!!! My sister and I used to routinely purge my parents basement and attic while they were in Florida, as Mom wouldn't part with a thing. My dad saved things like soap wafers in a big cookie tin. Apparently because he didn't like a wafer in the shower, but couldn't bring himself to toss what was still a useful amount of soap. Useful for WHAT?? We used to get laughing so hard, we could barely stand up. One year my sister emerged from behind the cellar stair wearing a yellow parka with the sleeves up to the elbows. I said what the H _ _ _ !!! is that?? "My parka from eighth grade" My sister was forty seven at the time.
I know it's time to declutter, if a collection of anything results in it taking too long to find what I'm actually looking for, or I begin to resent "maintaining" it (i.e. dusting)!
I can't wait to see your thoughts on co-existence of the two. At this stage I have given up on my preferences.
When I see something I really like I take a photo of it with my iPod and then consider where I am going to put it and do I really need it. Helps when I focus on the fact that I may have to downsize one day, possibly in the not too distant future and there will be no room for everything.
Happy New Year to everyone !
You can contribute them to a community charity thrift store like Goodwill or Habitat for Humanities "ReStore" or you can join your local freecycle.org group. That way you are de-cluttering, your items go to someone else who might see them as a great find or treasure and you are not adding to a landfill. A win-win for everyone. Thanks for a really good article.
However, picture one and nine are how I live...English country to the max, a blue and white collection, art filling the walls and a library chocked full of books. I absolutely require visual stimulation otherwise I would go bonkers. I learned through years of reading decorating magazines and wandering through shops and furniture stores how to display items to give a home a collected look rather than a jumble sale at the junkyard.
But I also appreciate clean lines and a minimal look, my all times faves being the California golf couse house and the house in Chicago that rose from the ashes of an old dairy barn.
Too many things are a burden.
Too few things are a hardship.
Several things, carefully chosen, are just right.
POOR PEOPLE
One day, the father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the express purpose of showing him how poor people live. They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.
On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, 'How was the trip?'
...
'It was great, Dad.'
'Did you see how poor people live?' the father asked.
'Oh yeah,' said the son.
'So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?' asked the father.
The son answered:
'I saw that we have one dog and they had four.
We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them.'
The boy's father was speechless.
Then his son added, 'Thanks Dad, for showing me how poor we are.'
Isn't perspective a wonderful thing?
And here's a great question to ask yourself for purging the closet: "will this fit me if I lose 10 pounds?" If you have to lose more than that, time to chuck it. If you end up losing the weight you can treat yourself with a new outfit. ;0)
Too much clutter physically bothers me -- I flee from "antique" shops after just a few minutes. But too sterile doesn't appeal to me either.
Right now, almost everything we own is in either the POD or the half of the garage without the saw and lumber storage. We're living in the granny unit while remodeling our house.
When it comes time to move back in, I plan to carefully scrutinize each item before allowing it to back into the house. I have to be careful though because, in the past, during purging frenzies, I've gotten rid of things I wish I hadn't. Balance, always balance.
I think another motivation for me, in keeping my house decluttered, is how nice & easy it is to invite people over, or volunteer to have a meeting at my house. All I have to do is a quick dust & Swiffer, not spend days going thru piles of stuff laying around.
A single friend fractured their arm up near the shoulder last summer, and when I saw all the clutter in their apartment, I feared for their ability to get around at all without tripping or needing help to move the piles out of the way!!
It's not a small thing is it?! The worst stuff has a way of happening when least convenient. More important, when something happens, (and BTW, that doesn't necessarily mean YOU, it could just be someone very near and dear to you requires your presence, and your care and help)..... it is nice to have set a standard for that emergency. So yes, you can certainly make some piles and put some stuff off, but there probably should exist a "low bar" in case your next batch of laundry, or grocery shopping, or whatever.... gets put off due to absolute dire necessity, and not because you didn't have the spirit for it!
What works for us is to declare certain areas clutter-free, they get dealt with immediately (kitchen counters, dining room table, living room floor...). Rethinking our storage so the kids can clean up after themselves. And editing. My downfall is once the decision is made to get rid of an item, getting it out of the house immediately whether we craigslist it or donate it. Too many times I have made that decision to get rid of an item, only to find it again and wonder if I wanted to keep or chuck it.
Also, to overload our already full house, we are dealing with combining two estates into our house (his mom, my dad). To keep that at bay we have rented storage until we can deal with all the extras. With more free time no doubt we will get a handle on the chaos. At a time of resolutions, that is my goal for the year!
My motto for purchasing almost anything has always been if it is: beautiful, functional, and the size is right for its purpose. The price, of course, must be affordable. That said, there have been moments of madness...which enevitably must be dealt with in a more sober and reflective state.
Thanks for the guidelines; they will be helpful for the task ahead.
Well......., the only thing you can do is go down there and look at each thing, and ask yourself WHEN you last "needed" it. Now, as one who had to go out to buy a spring form pan to make a chocolate cake I wanted to try....only to realize I had tossed mine ten years ago in a cleaning fit... here is what happened. I bought one, better than the first, for 17.99. So it cost me 1.79 per year to throw the old in the trash, and it took ten years to miss it. : ) Ps the cake was super!
http://www.nytimes.com/recipes/1014419/Chocolate-Whiskey-Cake.html
Great article indeed.
Very good article, I will try to get him to read it.
For those who have items they're tired of seeing in personal home decor: While hiding them until you're ready to use them again is a good option, I've discovered sometimes the best thing to do is just to let go of them. Yes, you could donate, and another option to consider is giving it to someone you know how will really appreciate it. I've found knowing that something I have is going to someone who will delight in it makes it that much easier to let go of it. Or if you have a group of friends with similar taste who want a facelift for the New Year (as they declutter), consider having a "Decor Swap."
This article is very timely. Just went out and bought a bunch of baskets for the toys in the living room - we are remodeling and the living room is also the play room at the moment and I need less clutter, as the remodel is in it's second year now. De-cluttering feels so great!
Now it seems as though we are approaching the point written about in a SF story years ago (The Midas Plague), where the poor people were the ones with too many material possessions, and the rich people lived extremely simply.
Thank you for the timely article. :)
At heart, I'm a minimalist. I love clean sleek lines and nothing to mess up my thought processes. My problem is that I am sentimental and try to be a conservationist at times, saving something because I may use it one day or think that I will find another use for it. Not hard to guess I have a difficult time throwing anything away.
This article gives me a starting point. Thanks!!
People didn't only stock up on food, household needs were also stored when they could be bought cheaply. I grew up through the 1950s and the effects of the depression were still being instilled into us and it took another 20 years before we could embrace the more secure lifestyle we had and could look forward to.
I couldn't agree more Jack with your comment about 60s and 70s furniture and furnishings, but I consider that era very much a break out time, when people really started to throw off all the old fears and uncertainties of their parents, it was minimalist too, again more because of the stifling overdecorated homes they had grown up in - probably went too far the other way, but it did open up a whole new world of furniture and decorating that led to the huge variety we have today.
"That which we elect to surround ourselves with becomes the museum of our soul and the archive of our experiences." -Thomas Jefferson
These thoughts have definitely influenced my consumption patterns today. I really think carefully before bringing anything new into my home that I won't consume or use up in its entirety. I also avoid bringing things into other peoples lives too that will be static space takers.
Good points you made re the past attitudes towards material goods. For many people there is still the attitude of keeping broken things because it used to be possible to fix things (a real tradition in my country), or recycle bits of it, so keeping bits and pieces was or could be useful. But things today are generally designed so that you have to buy a whole new thing (yes, smart phones, I am talking about you) so keeping broken things is often a waste of space.
Plus, buying things is easy and relatively cheap (thanks, eBay) while de cluttering takes time and we don''t think about it as being fun.
I've gradually been clearing my clutter while I've been off work sick for a few months. I have set myself rules: 1. Do I either use it or love it? If not - it goes / gets stored. 2. If I choose to store something, I ask myself if I will remember: a) that I still have it and b) where I put it. If not (unless it's a keepsake/heirloom) - it also goes!
The wardrobe clear-out has been hardest. Letting go of clothes that were just a mistake, impulse buys, things that don't go with anything or things that make me say "maybe I'll wear it one day" (knowing that I won't). Tough love required!
I was interested in noting the commenters who said they were moving and using the move as an opportunity to de-clutter. This absolutely makes sense. When you repaint a room is another opportunity to de-clutter. When you know in advance you have guests coming for a stay, it's another opportunity to de-clutter.
Everyone should take advantage of opportunities like these. In this town where I live,everyone seems to move their clutter along with them - does this make sense? Not to me it doesn't.
One commenter noted that she wished her children would de-clutter their toys. Christmas is an opportunity. I used to tell my daughter to select 10 or 12 of her toys she wasn't playing with anymore and we'd donate them to children less fortunate. Worked great for us!
Now that I'm on in years, I think of what my daughter will have to go through when I'm gone, so I've gone on a de-cluttering crusade, paring down and minimizing without sacrificing the treasures which make me feel comfortable in my home. I've also created a photo album of things she might be curious about (she lives in another state) or which might have value - real or sentimental (something of her grandmother's.)
As someone said, junk can be tossed, clutter can be donated. Remember the 3 Rs - Reduce, Reuse, Recycle. Then De-clutter.
Yesterday I was at my mom's going through her closet...my dad was a historian and he had church records dating back to 1921.... all these lovely handwritten documents..... not sure what to do with those.
I am becoming more ruthless about it though....
I had some old maps I threw away because I was tired and just wanted to get it finished. I wish I had kept at least one of them.
I guess mistakes will be made and that is a part of life, but for the whole, I feel better 'lightening up'.
Your home must have the right bones for that kind of look. And, I love art, and artifacts too much. Having said that, if all were to perish tomorrow, I doubt that I would mis anything so much that it would hurt.
I also use this rule I made up a long time ago. When cleaning a room, put away only FIFTEEN things. No. I am not quite rainman, but..... Stop. How much more is left? Usually not as much as you think. So either stop and do another 15(or less) later, or continue on. In minutes, it's much less than you imagine.
Sometimes it is useful to use mental tricks so that the monotony and craziness of clutter does not get the best of us.
But everytime I hear the word "Binders", I have to smile.
When I get behind and feel swamped with housework I will set a timer to spend 10 mins in a room tidying or cleaning. As soon as 10 mins is up I move to the next room. Having a time limit makes me apply myself better so I achieve more, and once I have done that 10 mins in each room, I don't feel half as swamped and I can then run right through the house finishing everything.
jOdy…Have you thought about making a wine cork serving tray? When I was looking for a tray I came across some that were wood and glass but you needed to insert your own wine corks. Make one for yourself and maybe as gifts for the people you shared the wine with?
Ploeff…..so true. Asking adult kids before you donate or toss would be a good idea. You never know what really had meaning for them. But after asking….purge away. I would hate for my family to have to pick through my stuff and make decisions after I am gone.
I seem to have an over abundance of towels that are still in good shape just not my current colors. My husband wants them to clean up cars, basement, etc but still have too many. I donate them to the local animal shelters and vet’s offices who have an actual need for them when we don’t and never will.
My other challenge is paperwork! It is so overwhelming. I go through it usually every week or two but there always seems to be too much of it....from kids school papers to insurance papers to bills, etc! I am a very organized person and love organizing but can't seem to get a handle on paperwork! HELP!
I am glad I brightened your day lol ! Now picture your children laughing their fannies off ( as my sister and I were rolling on the floor) that you saved the crazy whatever it is.....as each generation is sentimental regarding their off spring, but the problem is each generation has MORE and more space to STORE it. So it's easy to see why the problem grows with every passing year!!
Except the paper piles and mail, etc. There needs to be an organizing system for paper!!!